“Okay, so here are some reflections on my experience and the impact that you have had on me and my life. So I would say that you have been an absolute godsend.
You have been able to significantly unlock and transform many of the most important aspects of my life that I could never have imagined possible. So when I think about my professional life and my career, you have been able to show me ways that I can shine and thrive and expand and achieve more than I ever could have imagined.
…And you've done it in like really practical as well as mystical and amazing, miraculous ways. When I think about my personal life, I'm absolutely confident I would have never, ever had the courage and the ability to have unlocked the level of happiness, joy, freedom, fulfilment, love, connection that I now thoroughly enjoy in my life purely because of the journey that you have taken me on and helped me navigate through and realise so much more about myself and those around me in ways that has just opened my eyes and given me a level of courage and clarity about what I want to do and how I want to do it. And yeah, I'm just so delighted with how my personal life has evolved over the last, I don't know, I think it must be something like five years nearly.
And when I think about other aspects of my life, so the relationships that I have that are so, so, so, so special to me are now in the state of just such beautifulness, actually. Just I am clear about who I want in my life and why I want them in my life. I'm also clear about who I just have moved on from and how to hold that and feel complete.
And how to break, really unhelpful patterns. And I know I've got so much, much, much, much more to do, but I'm just now so aware of some of the unhelpful patterns of behaviour and thinking that really held me back or repeated just unhelpful things in my life. And also to see some people for who they are and, you know, kind of free of judgment or at least just able to see, do I want them in my life, and if I do, that's what comes with them. I also would say that physically, I'm in a better state than I ever, ever imagined.
And the clarity of my brain patterns and my brain capacity is so much, I don't know, clearer than I ever thought possible, even though I'm grown a lot in my age, in terms of chronological age. And that's been great. So the impact of that is that I think better, I clearer, I problem-solve, I hold myself well in conversations and making strategic decisions. I also have found it really valuable that you've held the mirror up in such a beautiful way with me over and over and over again, both about the things that I do that are really wonderful, but also the things that I do or the ways that I think or kind of a misplaced in my views about myself that actually are unhelpful to me.
Your superpowers have been unbelievably helpful. I just feel like, in fact, there's this theme when I reflect back on everything I've just shared, where it's sort of blown my mind, the impact that you've had. And if someone had have said that, oh, she will have this impact, I would have said, yeah, right, you must just be joking. It must be some kind of Instagram bullshit, but it's actually so true that you have been able to help me navigate through so many really, really tricky things in my life, but in such an incredibly supportive, but honest and challenging way. I, when I think about all the big things that I've achieved and the big things that I've overcome, which everyone has them, you know, dreams as well as challenges, I immediately think of you and the impact you have had in helping me achieve those goals or dreams and also overcoming those challenges. Like, not single-handedly, but you've had like a huge, huge, huge, huge role to play.
And I think me, the bear, and you, the wolf, I just go, oh my God, amazing partnership. But actually, you are not just a partner with me because you come with this whole ground crew that also support me. So when we've done spells and we've done different processes, all of this multitude of modalities and skills and talents and gifts that you bring are like this plethora of amazingly impactful approaches that you just pull out in each session, that means that I can just feel confident that there will be some kind of modality or process or way of approaching a situation that I'll find enormously helpful for what we're discussing.
Your insight into people and situations is unbelievable, more than any insight I've ever had. And the fact that you can tap into the ground crew part of it is just phenomenal. But you're also just really real, so you, even though some stuff is woo-woo, you just approach it in such an approachable, open way, and you demystify it, or you just tell me, hey, even if you don't understand it, that's okay, just go with it and your conscious will catch up.
And you taught me a lot about energies and all of these things have shifted significantly for me, going from being in a really yucky place to being in a much, much more content, fulfilled place, peaceful place, happy place, joyful, thriving sort of place. And actually, the other thing is, when I've really been in the grip or my shadow side is just really dark, those times you have really held me, like, I just really appreciate it and it just helped get through it so much more than if I didn't have you.”